Cool Down Your Fights, Heat Up Your Summer
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Start Fighting the Right Way
The All About Conflict Coach Bundle provides practical tools to shift how you show up in your relationship.
It’s not about changing who you are—it’s about approaching conflict in a healthier, more productive way. You’ll learn how to break old patterns and handle tough moments with more care and clarity.
Even in the face of disagreement, you can grow closer. Step by step, you can transform how you connect, communicate, and support each other, especially when it matters most.
You are going to have fights. Get equipped for one great price.
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All About Conflict Includes:
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So you just had an argument. Now what? The latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, “Making Up After an Argument” includes a step-by-step exercise to help you and your partner process an argument and discover what you were really fighting about. In addition to our powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” exercise, “Making Up After an Argument” includes sections and exercises on feeling overloaded, taking effective breaks from conflict, and how to rebuild the lines of communication—even mid-argument.
Solve the mystery of what you and your partner really argue about to restore, repair, and revitalize the communication in your relationship. This new program will help you learn:
- How to process even the most difficult arguments and heal from them together.
- What to do when you are feeling overwhelmed and overloaded, what we call “Flooding”.
- What happens in your body when you are in conflict.
- How to calm yourself down, in or out of conflict.
- The importance of “repair attempts,” or ways to get the conversation back on track, plus how to notice and make them
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In “Dealing with Conflict” Drs. John and Julie Gottman guide you through a series of exercises, concepts, and communication skills that can truly change your conflict conversations. With these new skills, going from arguing to understanding is possible. Conflict is inevitable, combat is optional.
In this program you will learn:
- Why you keep fighting about the same things, and how to get “unstuck.”
- How to address recurring issues within your relationship.
- How to approach conflict conversations gently, in a way that addresses specific issues.
- How to identify what your feelings and experiences are around issues that are causing conflict, and how to gently bring them up with your partner.
- How to understand your partner’s side of an issue, and how to get your partner to understand where you’re coming from.
- How to examine the individual values, ideas, and beliefs that influence how you and your partner engage with the world around you.
- More about your own emotions.
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Connect more deeply with your partner, even in the heat of the moment
At the core, a relationship is two people shaped by past experiences, beliefs, wounds, and dreams, trying to grow together. It’s no wonder we trigger each other sometimes, often without meaning to.
But imagine what it would feel like to turn moments of tension into moments of connection. To feel less distant during conflict, and more like a team. To know how to take a break before things spiral, and how to calm your mind and body when emotions run high.
Conflict is part of every relationship. But when you know how to fight the right way, you learn how to love better. And that changes everything.
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Life-changing. Thank God for guiding me to these. I have never seen a fight de-escalate into such a deep, bonding moment. I began to see how I could do the same. These courses actually work!
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Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions answered below. More help: Gottman Support Center.
What is the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
The Adviser is an unparalleled approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with a research-based self-assessment, analyze key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection. Improve your relationship on your schedule, from anywhere.
What is the Gottman Relationship Coach?
The Gottman Relationship Coach is a self-guided program based on the popular Gottman Method. the Coach is an inspiring and educational multimedia experience created and designed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman to enhance and transform the wellbeing of relationships. Participants access research-based relationship skill-building tools in a series of interactive videos, exercises, and card decks designed to inspire healthy communication and deeper connection.
What is the diference between the Gottman Relationship Adviser and the Coach Programs?
Whereas the Gottman Relationship Coach products address specific areas of your relationship you select, the Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete relationship wellness program. The Adviser takes the guesswork out of improving your relationship by combining assessment and solutions all in one place. Start with a checkup to find out what you can improve, then follow a personalized, step-by-step plan for your relationship.
How does the Gottman Relationship Adviser analyze and explain my relationship?
The Adviser uses the Sound Relationship House Theory, created by world-renowned psychologists Drs. John and Julie Gottman. The Sound Relationship House is a foundational concept within Gottman Method and has been used successfully with hundreds of thousands of couples all over the world to help them understand and improve their relationships.
If I have purchased the Gottman Assessment or a Coach program, can I still experience the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
Yes, customers can benefit from taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser. The Gottman Relationship Adviser will give you a full snapshot of the state of your relationship based on a detailed self-assessment, then provides recommendations for improvement. You will also get credit for your original purchase at checkout, just login before you check out.
Do I have to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with my partner?
No, you have the option to take the Gottman Relationship Adviser with or without your partner. You can take the Gottman Relationship Adviser alone to learn about yourself and your relationship, or you can invite your partner to take the Adviser as well, even after starting your own self-assessment. After you log in and invite your partner, they can access the Relationship Adviser by registering on Gottman Connect. Once they register, they will have the option to complete the self-assessment to receive their own custom relationship results..
Will my partner and I receive separate results?
Yes, you and your partner complete your own self-assessment and receive separate results based on your unique answers.
What does the assessment portion of the Gottman Relationship Adviser measure?
The Gottman Relationship Adviser can help you gain insight into your overall relationship health, friendship and intimacy, romance, sex, and passion, how you manage conflict, your shared meaning, trust, commitment, and more.
What if my partner and I decide we need to see a therapist after taking the Gottman Relationship Adviser?
You can find a Gottman-trained therapist on The Gottman Referral Network. This Network of experienced clinicians are certified the Gottman Method-based relationship-building techniques and can use your assessments and work with the Adviser or Coaches to help you get on the pathway to a healthy, long-lasting relationship more quickly.
