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The Easiest Way to Improve Your Relationship

What's the one thing happy couples do the most?

Most couples do not break up because of significant events like infidelity. It’s the erosion of trust and build-up of resentment over time that turns love into disaster.

So what can you do to keep your relationship headed in the right direction?

Learn more about the power of turning toward in this video.

Bids are the building blocks of emotional connection. Learn more about bids, how to make them, and how to turn towards them with the latest from the Gottman Relationship Coach: Feeling Seen and Heard.

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