The 6-step plan for preserving intimacy and rekindling romance after baby arrives.
Even the best relationships are strained during the transition from duo to trio. Lack of sleep, never-ending housework, and new fiscal concerns often lead to conflict, disappointment, and hurt feelings. This book shows couples how to avoid the pitfalls of parenthood, with exercises that will separate the “master” from the “disaster” couples and help new parents positively manage the strain that comes along with their bundle of joy.
“Wonderfully practical and specific… Beyond just citing research studies and statistics, the Gottmans provide readers with self-tests and detailed exercises for examining and resolving particular issues within their own marriages… it will apply to all married readers, whether or not they are raising children.”
— Library Journal
“Definitely, the best preparation we did for becoming new parents was reading the book, And Baby Makes Three. It was the only book that focused on the necessity of an open and honest relationship between us. This book, based on evidence from scientific research, helped us build a tool box of skills and strategies that continues to keep our relationship and family strong during this transitional time of being new parents.”
— A & S Fishel, Boston, MA
E-book edition available here.
Material
Hardback or Paperback
Release Date
2007/2008
Publisher
Crown/Three Rivers Press
Language
English
Page Count
272
Authors
John Gottman, PhD and Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD
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The 6-step plan for preserving intimacy and rekindling romance after baby arrives.
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Now on Sale! Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Art & Science of Love couples workshop is available online for you and your partner to take together from the comfort of your own home.
You and your partner will learn how to foster respect, affection, and closeness in your relationship. You will build and share a deeper connection with each other. You’ll learn how to keep conflict discussions calm, how to break through conflicted gridlock, and how to strengthen and maintain the gains in your relationship
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A five-step method that builds emotional intelligence and creates positive, long-lasting effects for children from toddlers to teens. Easy to learn, and used by parents, educators, and care-givers, it supports kids through life’s ups and downs.
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This digital set collects some of our most effective, straightforward, and immediately useful materials included in our Clinician’s Toolkit.
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Learn the five steps to becoming an Emotion Coach for your child.
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Becoming parents is a new beginning. For most couples, it is a time of hope, anticipation, and excitement. The secret to successfully managing the transition is to keep your relationship strong. Transition to Parenthood is an evidence-based and research-tested program to help prepare couples for life with a new baby and the joys and challenges of the transition to parenthood. It builds on what Dr. John Gottman and colleagues found is the best predictor of relationship adjustment after a baby arrives: the quality of friendship in the relationship.
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Send love near and far! Based on the Gottmans’ Sound Relationship House model, this set of postcards provides 32 opportunities to say “I love you,” “I miss you,” or “I’m thinking of you.”
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