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These programs are designed with your relationship in mind.

Boost connection by building fondness and admiration, opening up about sex and intimacy, and practicing better listening. Find what your relationship needs on sale this summer!

How to Stop People Pleasing and Take Control of Your Life

$35.00

New! You Can’t Please Them All.

Do you often say yes when you really mean no? Will you do almost anything to avoid conflict? Do you always put others’ needs before your own? These people-pleasing tendencies often occur at the expense of your own needs. Stop people-pleasing and take control of your life with this on-demand webinar. Watch a licensed marriage and family therapist teach the tools and mindset to create healthy and satisfying relationships.

Why Mindfulness Matters and How to Use It to Improve Your Relationships

$35.00

New! Why Mindfulness Matters for couples.

Learn the benefits of mindfulness in relation to relationships, co-regulation and burnout prevention. What is mindfulness, and can you use it in your relationships? How do you fit it into your busy schedule, and what are the benefits of doing so? Nicole Schiener, Registered Psychotherapist and Bringing Baby Home Educator, is here to answer these questions for you.

30 Day Relationship Journal

$30.00

NEW! Small Daily Habits. Big Relationship Wins.

Looking for an easy, research-backed way to strengthen your relationship? The Gottman 30 Day Relationship Journal helps you build a simple, meaningful journaling habit, in just a few minutes a day. For 30 days, you’ll receive a daily email straight to your inbox. Each day focuses on a specific Gottman relationship topic and includes three thought-provoking prompts designed to help you reflect, connect, and take action.

Gottman Essentials Webinar Bundle

Original price was: $210.00.Current price is: $59.00.

Get a free Summer Guide with purchase! This collection of five expert-led webinars provides proven strategies for a thriving relationship, whether just starting out or looking for improvements after years together. This summer give your relationship the gift of deeper connection and growth with our brand-new Gottman Essentials Webinar Bundle! Strengthen your bond, improve communication, and build lasting love – now for an exclusive introductory price!

Who This Bundle is For:

New and long-term couples looking to invest in lasting love
Anyone seeking practical communication tools and conflict resolution skills
Partners wanting to reignite intimacy and rediscover excitement
Couples needing easy, everyday ways to deepen emotional connection
Those ready to build trust and a supportive, loving environment

Why You’ll Love It:

Expert Insights: Learn from certified Gottman therapists and LMFTs
Proven Techniques: Real-world strategies you can apply immediately
Valuable Savings: Get $210 worth of webinars for just $49
Instant Access: Pre-recorded sessions you can watch anytime, anywhere

Note: You will purchase and use this product on GOTTMAN CONNECT.

Gottman Relationship Adviser

Original price was: $250.00.Current price is: $189.00.

Free Summer Guide with purchase! The Gottman Relationship Adviser is a complete approach to relationship wellness. Measure your relationship health with the research-based Gottman Assessment, analyze five key areas of your partnership to identify your strengths and weaknesses, then start a tailored, step-by-step digital program proven to heal and strengthen your connection—all on your schedule and from anywhere. The Adviser uses the legendary scientific Gottman Method to help you understand what’s really going on in your relationship—and gives you exactly what you need to improve it.

Gottman Relationship Coach: All About Intimacy Bundle

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Gottman Relationship Coach Love & Intimacy collection. With more than 50 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new All About Intimacy Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, which combines three of our most popular products: Loving Out Loud, Feeling Seen and Heard, Enriching Your Sex Life

Gottman Relationship Coach: Enriching Your Sex Life

Original price was: $79.00.Current price is: $49.00.

Learn how to foster intimacy and safety in your relationship and how doing so can lead to amazing sex in the new Gottman Relationship Coach, “Enriching Your Sex Life”. In this never-before-seen series of videos and conversation-starting exercises, Drs. John and Julie Gottman will guide you and your partner through opening up communication around sex, learning your partner’s preferences, exploring sensuality, and building sexual safety in your relationship.

Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle: All About Love

Original price was: $298.00.Current price is: $149.00.

Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s Gottman Relationship Coach Love & Intimacy collection. With more than 50 years of research into relationships, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are here to share their knowledge with you. Learn from the experts in this new Gottman Relationship Coach Bundle, All About Love, which combines three of our most popular products: “How to Make Your Relationship Work,” “Loving Out Loud,” and “Building a Life Together.”

Gottman Relationship Coach: Building a Life Together

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

You’re deciding to spend forever together. Making a commitment to one another is a time to celebrate and prepare for the new adventure ahead of you. Your journey is one of trust and commitment as you forge a path towards lasting love. You’ll want to have shared goals and new dreams to hope for, and plenty of fun and play. Don’t forget to soak in all the intimacy and romance along the way! So, take each other’s hands and get ready. Whether you’re committing to each other after a long time of casual dating or you’ve just swept each other off your feet, committing to each other is a big step, but don’t worry. With more than 50 years of research into how relationships work, the Gottmans are here to give you the tools you need for happily ever after. This new program will help you learn:

The difference between dreams and goals
How to have conversations around your hopes for your lives, both individually and together
The meaning of trust and commitment, and how to increase both in your relationship
How to go “all in” on your relationship, and the fruits that it can bear
How to introduce more fun, play, and adventure in your lives
How to create your own Rituals of Connection

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Gottman Relationship Coach: Feeling Seen and Heard

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

Do you feel seen, heard, and valued by your partner? One of the many benefits of a happy and healthy relationship is the feeling that you have someone who really “gets” you. But everyone has areas they could improve on, or be more intentional in their relationship. That’s what Feeling Seen and Heard, from the Gottman Relationship Coach, is all about. Learn from Drs. John and Julie Gottman how to be seen and heard, how to become a better listener and how to Turn Towards your partner more often in this series of videos and exercises.

When you show up for your partner, and when you feel seen and heard, your connection will deepen and you can even reduce your stress! This new program will help you learn:

How to identify and share your truth
About what we call Bids for Connection, and the three ways you can respond to them
How to Turn Towards your partner to make your relationship successful.
A concept of an Emotional Bank Account and positive emotions, and how to increase the balance in your Emotional Bank Account
How to identify and express your needs in the relationship
How to be a great listener
How to have a stress-reducing conversation

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Gottman Relationship Coach: Making Up After an Argument

Original price was: $149.00.Current price is: $99.00.

So you just had an argument. Now what? The latest program in the Gottman Relationship Coach, “Making Up After an Argument” includes a step-by-step exercise to help you and your partner process an argument and discover what you were really fighting about. In addition to our powerful “Aftermath of a Fight” exercise, “Making Up After an Argument” includes sections and exercises on feeling overloaded, taking effective breaks from conflict, and how to rebuild the lines of communication—even mid-argument. Solve the mystery of what you and your partner really argue about to restore, repair, and revitalize the communication in your relationship. This new program will help you learn:

How to process even the most difficult arguments and heal from them together.
What to do when you are feeling overwhelmed and overloaded, what we call “Flooding”.
What happens in your body when you are in conflict.
How to calm yourself down, in or out of conflict.
The importance of “repair attempts,” or ways to get the conversation back on track, plus how to notice and make them

Limited Time Offer! “Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Loving Out Loud

Original price was: $69.00.Current price is: $39.00.

Loving Out Loud! Find the Passion Again. You and your partner must nurture a culture of fondness and admiration to find that spark again. In this all-new series of exercises, activities, and videos, Drs. John and Julie Gottman can show you how to love your partner even better. Upgrade your love life with this research-based series of conversations, skills, and practices designed to enhance the fondness and admiration in your relationship. In this program you will learn:

All about the Sound Relationship House and how to build your own.
How to ask better questions that lead to richer conversations.
Better and more effective ways to express your love.
How to get specific about the things you appreciate, and communicate them in ways your partner will really hear.
What skills the “Masters of Relationships” practice regularly and how to implement them in your own relationship.

Limited Time Offer!

“Buy Now” will take you to GOTTMAN CONNECT to purchase and view this product.

Real Stories, Real Transformations

The Gottman Institute has helped countless individuals, couples, and families improve their relationships.

The 5 dating tips helped me find the love of my life. Thank you Gottman!!

Review from Lisa

5 Days of Dating Advice

We have not been connecting well and this program has prompted deeper discussion and connection.I honestly think this program saved our marriage!

Review from Jesse B.

Gottman Relationship Adviser

Working with a Gottman Therapist has transformed me as a person. For the first time ever, I feel ready for a partner.

Review from Gemma

Gottman Method Couples Therapy

3 months after joining Lessons for Love I found my girlfriend. I still use my learned knowledge every day.

Review from Mark

Lessons in Love for Singles

It has helped us better understand communication; it validated my feelings of not being alone such as 69% of couples had the same problems when they came back 2 years later

Review from Catriona H.

Gottman Relationship Adviser

We communicate better and are more intentional with each other. Very helpful!

Review from Lindsay D.

Gottman Relationship Adviser

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